Baby's day out !

This day has been awesome coz when I woke up I had my Ditha (Dhriti) sleeping by my side, yes for the first time she slept with us and it was such a bliss. We could hardly sleep all night coz both of us were worried what if she wakes up, what if she cries and for reasons unknown :)

When she opened her eyes in the morning she gave a big smile, a smile which meant, wow Upa I was sleeping with u happily kinds, She looked on the other side for her Uncle and when she dint find, with her sweet morning voice she asked me .. Upa.. Pankaju elli (where is pankaj), She was thrilled to see him then and not once she asked about her mom. I asked her if she wants Amma, do you wan to go downstairs to see Amma, she had a straight Answer "No" :) It made me smile and I hugged her tight.
She was very thrilled to sleep with her Upa and Uncle and wanted to just stick to us.

This is how she slept when she got tired of the movie!

We then went out for a movie that day. Ice age (3d). We were worried how this 2 yr old little gal manage it. Trust me we were shocked at her happiness of seeing her first movie. She tried wearing the glasses but couldn't see through those huge glasses. She sat watched it. Clapped seeing the elephant, was guessing what is what, smiling and shying donno for what reason. Not one disturbance from her and she was so happily watching. She fell asleep on her seat when she actually got tired or bored of the movie, but it was such a nice feeling to sit with her and watch the movie, with her sister, amma, uncle and Upa beside :)

We then had food in the mall and when we asked her what next she said lets go tata.. :):) She dint want to go back home as she was enjoying her day out after a long time


On the whole it has been an awesome and memorable experience to watch a movie with my tiny gal Ditha

You made a mistake not Me!! Does Life become easy when I say so??

For normal people, its easy to cry for what they are not getting, crib about the people around and the situations, complain about people being rude or selfish, talk big about how great they are and how selfless and perfect they are :)
This is genuinely neat as most of us would fall under this category. The gaudy show off of oneself. If only we could learn from the surroundings and people we realize how precious LIFE on earth is and we would all make it a better place to live in.
If most of us aren't like what I have tried describing above then all the self realization and Sri Sri Sri Ravishankar schools for reinventing oneself would stop making business. Everyone would be spiritual and no one would face problems in this so called short LIFE.

But how often we meet people, who actaully are by nature good enough to handle this bumpy ride of life? Who carry a SMILE whatever the situation may be? Probably very few. because it is not easy to mend our thoughts and actions. But some do it willingly and consciously so they lead a peaceful LIFE here on earth. And i totally dont buy the idea that there is some LIFE after LIFE :)

I live with a Man who has so many good qualities (and also bad) and I love to be positive about what I look at. I get to learn lots from him daily. The patience he has always, the calmness he potrays, the attitude he has towards life, the happy guy he is come what may, the tough situations he handles, the never blame others attitude. The daring and caring guy he is.Live and let live policies. Wow.. I can go on and on..

Dont mind that i'm praising my love.. I love him beacause of the Character that he is. Because when he came into my life I dint see his family background or his richness, his degree or the money he draws. I love him coz of the MAN he is, not because he fit into all the marriage criteria. I knew all the plus and the minus of him and embraced both with the same love.

Just not to divert , my concern here is our capacity to get influenced by goodness of someone, ignoring the negetivities which doesnt matter to us :):) and agreeing to disagree is a great quality which we should imbibe in our lives and realize that the wrong we point out in others can be a quality in us too!