You made a mistake not Me!! Does Life become easy when I say so??

For normal people, its easy to cry for what they are not getting, crib about the people around and the situations, complain about people being rude or selfish, talk big about how great they are and how selfless and perfect they are :)
This is genuinely neat as most of us would fall under this category. The gaudy show off of oneself. If only we could learn from the surroundings and people we realize how precious LIFE on earth is and we would all make it a better place to live in.
If most of us aren't like what I have tried describing above then all the self realization and Sri Sri Sri Ravishankar schools for reinventing oneself would stop making business. Everyone would be spiritual and no one would face problems in this so called short LIFE.

But how often we meet people, who actaully are by nature good enough to handle this bumpy ride of life? Who carry a SMILE whatever the situation may be? Probably very few. because it is not easy to mend our thoughts and actions. But some do it willingly and consciously so they lead a peaceful LIFE here on earth. And i totally dont buy the idea that there is some LIFE after LIFE :)

I live with a Man who has so many good qualities (and also bad) and I love to be positive about what I look at. I get to learn lots from him daily. The patience he has always, the calmness he potrays, the attitude he has towards life, the happy guy he is come what may, the tough situations he handles, the never blame others attitude. The daring and caring guy he is.Live and let live policies. Wow.. I can go on and on..

Dont mind that i'm praising my love.. I love him beacause of the Character that he is. Because when he came into my life I dint see his family background or his richness, his degree or the money he draws. I love him coz of the MAN he is, not because he fit into all the marriage criteria. I knew all the plus and the minus of him and embraced both with the same love.

Just not to divert , my concern here is our capacity to get influenced by goodness of someone, ignoring the negetivities which doesnt matter to us :):) and agreeing to disagree is a great quality which we should imbibe in our lives and realize that the wrong we point out in others can be a quality in us too!

My first 3 yrs of a beautiful journey called marriage!

3 cheers to this beautiful Life as we complete 3 years of this beautiful marriage on the 18th of this month. Thanks a ton for making it such a wonderful journey till now and 

hope we continue to be better than ever. Life is good coz of just one person and thats my best half. The only one who can bring a smile on my face or a tear in my eyes. 

Time flew in a jiffy. Around 20 trips together, hundreds of movies, countless partying at home and endless laughter and fun!At times I have cried and most times I have smiled.

This Continues for God knows how many yrs.. Together we have been just happy through thick and thin.. Want atleast another 100 yrs together :)

As I have always felt and said, no one can stop us from being happy and we continue to be so..

Life is just perfectly beautiful when we walk hand in hand.
Happy Anniversary my Boy and thanks a ton for being the lovely you! You are The swine ooops wine who gets better with time! I have zillion reassons to love you or as it is said
there is never a reason to love someone.. I just love u beyond limits.
You are my LIFE.

A small note on this occassion:

Within you I lose myself
Without you I find myself
Wanting to be lost again...

Wait .. Age still remains just a number!

There was a time when a 10 rs note made me happy and a piece of dairy milk chocolate mattered a lot. Used to wait endlessly for the consumer exhibition and be thrilled to play all games. Shopping for groceries with dad ensured some commission to me and a visit to grandparents meant its time to take a gift. Going to a theatre for a movie worth 40 rs was mind blowing. The maggi after a day at school was tempting and missing dinner after the maggi session was dream come true.

There is a time now when I'm not aware how much money lies in my wallet and mostly there is some cash lying at different places in the house, I have generally stopped liking chocolates and going to a consumer exhibition is a far cry. Grocery shopping is just a compulsion, attending any function is just an obligation. A movie at a theatre is not less than 1k for 2 people, Maggi is when am completely tired and cant cook anything.


Life keeps changing. Experiences teaches lots. People matter the most and Money never excites me more. Waiting to see what all is in store!!
But I have my own fun and carry my own responsibilities and I'm just happy to grow with age..

Wait .. Age still remains just a number!

Shades of Life!!

We always think that our life is in complete control of ourself, but only as time flies we realize nothing is in our control. All we can do is just let ourslef free to feel the experiences of life be it good or bad. All we can do is to be happy today and forever whatever the situations are.

I have seen different shades in my life. I used to madly love this guy and I knew very well that he too loved me. He could bring a smile on my face at any bad situations. Even while going through hell life was heavenly because of him. ALways felt sad to leave him and go home. But I was happy .. happy to a great extent. Now I'm married to the same guy, am super happy and the thought that I dont have to leave him behind every evening and go .. I feel blissful.. And this is after 3 yrs of marriage.

There has been a time when I always thought I just wanted to stay with my husband and no one else. But when I married I had my BIL with me. I was super happy and the experiences with him very just amazing. He became my best friend and I could just be myself with him and the same with him. My conception of being just with husband vanished then. Now he is away .. far away from me.. but am happy for him and happy without him too. I miss him lots and feel I wish he stayed with us and the changes in life dint happen.But thats life.. We move on.

Now I have one more BIL of mine who keeps visiting us and who makes me feel very happy. He is my Buddy.. My lil boy who cares for me and I care for him.. One day he too will move on but We will still be happy to have spent soemtime so closely and will cherish it all our lives.
I have extended family members who I have never met or met them just once, but I love talking to them and I feel good about them and we know quite lots about each other. Thanks for the social networking abilities.

I always had on my mind, I can never be happy being away from my mum. Now I speak to her daily and she calls me home and I say Ma I have lot of housechores to finish and I cant come this week, but you know what.. am happy, happy that my mum loves me and cares for me much more than anyone. I do miss her but I'm happy in my own little world of responsibilities.

There have been many friends whom I would meet daily and they are friends for life. But now they are far away, though we talk daily we meet only rarely. AT first I thought I cant live without them, now am still happy coz I know I love them and they love me.

There have been office colleagues, they are my friends and I have cried when they went away changing jobs or for some personal reason. I have had some best times with them and they are still in touch. I love them.. I still have few friends at work I know that one day they will move away but all I know is They are there somewhere and I will continue to stay in touch with the ones who I like..

There has been times when I just wanted to get rid of few people from life and always felt bad that they are around, but when they moved away I have felt thrilled and happy and sometime later I have become neutral to the situation which simply means they dint make me happy or sad. Their existense doesnt matter to me at all. Be it the so called friends, colleagues or relatives.

The bottom line in all these events of my life which keep changing constantly is, though the situations looked very scary and tough, I easily tend to move on and I'm always happy.. Except the few special ones other people and things hardly make any impact in my life. Its not an easy task to be happy always but for me it is. I thank my parents for giving me this awesome make. I'm born to be happy and I will be happy always!

A dull day!

A day when am in a pensive mood, not in a condition to interact lots. Wanna just lock up myself in a room and think and think about my wants and desires or Just go to sleep endlessly. All rubbish thoughts pass by when am down.
No one can bring me back to my normal self except time. I just let it be and i'm back to normal. Its tough for a happy gal to be in a low mood for long and hence I swing back to my normal self and be Happy.
Today is one such day where am a lil low and wanna just be alone and waiting to get back to my normal happy self quickly.